It’s easy for anyone to make this mistake of thinking that E2EE is set up immediately after scanning the QR code or clicking the invite link, so I’m glad this is being addressed and Delta Chat will soon block chats until E2EE is established, to prevent accidental misuse.
Yes, but not necessarily at the same time. You can take turns to be online and it will still work.
I suggested here a way to make this less confusing for new users: